{"id":12750,"date":"2020-02-19T03:00:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T09:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/?p=12750"},"modified":"2020-02-19T03:23:09","modified_gmt":"2020-02-19T09:23:09","slug":"why-wont-she-just","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/?p=12750","title":{"rendered":"Why Won\u2019t She Just\u2026?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Editor&rsquo;s Note: In this final article of a three-part mini-series on the BCC Grace and Truth blog addressing counseling the husband of an insubmissive wife, Jonathan Holmes considers the husband&rsquo;s expectations and what the husband should do when his expectation of submission is not fulfilled. In other contributions to the series, Jim Newheiser discusses submission in light of biblical marriage&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblicalcounselingcoalition.org\/2020\/02\/19\/why-wont-she-just\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Source<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In over a decade of marriage counseling, I have often encountered men who find themselves in marriages that are less than ideal. These situations include being married to an unbelieving wife or having a wife who has stepped out of the marriage covenant, a wife who has given up on the marriage, or a wife who does not hold to a biblical vision of submission. Helping men in situations like these can easily veer off course when the focus of our care and conversation in counseling focuses on what his wife is not doing. Continue Reading \u2192<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":187,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[279],"tags":[717,408,897,1011,898,708,410,728,902,900],"class_list":["post-12750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-biblical-counseling-coalition-bcc","tag-conflict","tag-marriage","tag-marriage-family","tag-marriage-counseling","tag-men-husbands","tag-people-who-offer-care","tag-submission","tag-the-counseling-process","tag-wives","tag-women-wives","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/187"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12750"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12750\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12752,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12750\/revisions\/12752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}