{"id":8827,"date":"2019-11-22T12:20:24","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T18:20:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/?p=8827"},"modified":"2019-12-11T00:09:23","modified_gmt":"2019-12-11T06:09:23","slug":"nominal-christianity-not-complementarianism-leads-to-abuse-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselor.com\/?p=8827","title":{"rendered":"Nominal Christianity\u2014Not Complementarianism\u2014Leads to Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A Review of W. Bradford Wilcox&rsquo;s&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Soft-Patriarchs-New-Men-Christianity\/dp\/0226897095\"><em>Soft Patriarchs, New Men: How Christianity Shapes Fathers and Husbands<\/em><\/a>. Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2004.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In the wake of the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.houstonchronicle.com\/news\/investigations\/article\/Southern-Baptist-sexual-abuse-spreads-as-leaders-13588038.php\">Southern Baptist Convention&rsquo;s abuse crisis<\/a>, a question is&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianpost.com\/news\/al-mohler-complementarian-theology-can-and-has-led-to-the-abuse-of-women-in-the-church.html\">being asked<\/a>: Is there an essential connection between conservative theological beliefs about gender and the family to environments that foster and tolerate abuse?<\/p>\n<p>An increasing number, it seems, would answer &ldquo;yes.&rdquo; For instance,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2018-11980-001\">one recent study<\/a>&nbsp;that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/ct\/2019\/december\/when-restoration-hurts-christian-counseling-abuse.html\">received attention<\/a>&nbsp;in <em>Christianity Today<\/em>&nbsp;argued that Calvinist beliefs perpetuate&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bu.edu\/articles\/2018\/does-god-ordain-domestic-violence\/\">&ldquo;Domestic Violence Myths&rdquo;<\/a>&nbsp;because of their correlation with &ldquo;binary views of gender,&rdquo; lower levels of acceptance of social justice theory, and emphasis on hierarchical relationships. But conservative Christianity isn&rsquo;t the only target. In 2017 and 2018, the Australian Broadcasting Company published a series of in-depth articles highlighting domestic violence and abuse among <a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2017-07-18\/domestic-violence-church-submit-to-husbands\/8652028\">Evangelical<\/a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2017-11-04\/cross-to-bear-catholic-church-domestic-abuse\/8680158\">Catholic<\/a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2017-04-24\/confronting-domestic-violence-in-islam\/8458116\">Muslim<\/a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2018-02-27\/chained-women-jewish-wives-hostage-in-abusive-marriages\/9464038\">Jewish<\/a>, and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2017-12-18\/scourge-family-violence-in-hindu-and-sikh-communities\/9257724\">Hindu<\/a>&nbsp;communities in Australia. Nor is this necessarily something new. Following the adoption of the BFM2000 by the Southern Baptist Convention in 1998, including the statement on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.utm.edu\/staff\/caldwell\/bfm\/1963-1998\/report1998.html\">male headship<\/a>, two prominent journalists&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com\/books?id=DH1RV9uu6I4C&amp;pg=PA172&amp;lpg=PA172&amp;dq=cokie+roberts+southern+baptists+have+a+distorted+view+of+the+family&amp;source=bl&amp;ots=cqR1Qqnn97&amp;sig=ACfU3U0hhvJiImBj9DT-wm_TTZZGDD7pIw&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=2ahUKEwj_w8C125bmAhWBuVkKHWfjBu4Q6AEwAXoECAkQAQ#v=snippet&amp;q=can%20clearly%20lead%20to%20abuse%2C%20both%20physical%20and%20emotional.&amp;f=false\">argued<\/a>&nbsp;that this kind of rhetoric &ldquo;can clearly lead to abuse, both physical and emotional.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p><strong>SOME SURPRISING DATA<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At this point, it&rsquo;s helpful to turn to data and hard facts. Back in 2004, University of Virginia sociologist W. Bradford Wilcox published a monumental study,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Conservative views on marriage and family are not sufficient in and of themselves to create healthy families and marriages. 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