Author: Caroline Newheiser

Having Heroes Helps

Having Heroes Helps

Posted by | Dec 20, 2021 | |

The best counselors are always on the lookout for new blogs, podcasts, audio lectures, booklets, and books to recommend to counselees. So much has been written and said concerning typical and even atypical counseling problems. We start with the Bible, of course, the primary resource. It points us to the divine power which “has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness” (2 Pet. 1:3). My purpose in this blog is to suggest not only seeking biblical understanding but incorporating the stories of fellow saints when we counsel. Continue Reading →

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“I Feel as if God is Perpetually Angry with Me”: How False Theology Impacts Counselees

“I Feel as if God is Perpetually Angry with Me”: How False Theology Impacts Counselees

Posted by | Aug 13, 2021 | |

When we meet with people who are suffering, we can have the tendency to apply Bible verses and solutions without looking deeper into their misunderstandings about the Lord’s character. This blog helps the counselor find the reasons for the counselee’s belief that God is angry with them and describes how to combat such faulty thinking. Continue Reading →

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What Should You Do Now? She Said She Doesn’t Believe the Bible!

What Should You Do Now? She Said She Doesn’t Believe the Bible!

Posted by | Apr 30, 2021 | |

At times, you may get involved in a conversation about a substantial topic with a friend or relative, which prompts you to share a verse from the Bible. Speaking about Scripture comes naturally to you, so you eagerly read a passage that applies to their situation. You quickly discover that they don’t believe in either God or the Bible. This person may be asking for common-sense advice or just need a listening ear. She isn’t interested in her relationship with the Lord or the ultimate goal of glorifying God. You begin to realize that the two of you have different goals. She wants a happier, more fulfilled life. You want to equip women to serve the Lord. Can progress be made with these differing goals? Should you continue meeting? What should you do now? Continue Reading →

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Helping Adult Victims of Clergy Sexual Abuse

Helping Adult Victims of Clergy Sexual Abuse

Posted by | Nov 2, 2020 | |

Recent news reports have revealed the sad reality of several adult women who were victims of sexual misconduct by a man in spiritual leadership. The following article offers suggestions for the counselor who has the opportunity to counsel women in similar situations. A previous counselee wrote to me last week to let me know how she has been affected after hearing about more victims of an apparent predatory Christian leader. I will call her Cindy. I asked her to describe what a counselor should know in order to offer care to someone in her position. This blog is the result of our conversation. Continue Reading →

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“I Miss Your Touch” — One of the Negative Effects of COVID-19

“I Miss Your Touch” — One of the Negative Effects of COVID-19

Posted by | Sep 17, 2020 | |

Our culture is undergoing necessary restrictions because of the novel coronavirus. The consequences are creeping into our behavior, influencing habits, and affecting the joys of human interaction. These changes began slowly, as our culture sought to follow the rules of social distancing with the admirable goal of protecting others as…
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