When the Operation is Successful, but the Patient Dies
If you’ve counseled for any length of time, you have likely found yourself in a spot where you have done everything you know to do, but the person you are counseling is no better. Maybe it’s a couple that you’ve been working with that’s highly conflicted, and they are just not responding to your counsel. Maybe it’s a woman struggling with anxiety who does all her homework yet shows no signs of improvement. We, counselors, are human and are likely to have intrusive thoughts suggesting we must not be very good at what we do. It’s even harder for us to take when our counselee says as much. Let’s face it—counseling people is hard work. While counseling at its best is a front-row seat to watch God work, it can be discouraging, frustrating, and at times humiliating when you can’t seem to figure out exactly what is wrong or what to suggest as a solution. Continue Reading →
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