That’s an important phrase for counselors to learn to use. Too often, counselors tend to guess about a counselee’s problems, thereby wasting his and their valuable time. “Give me an example.” It’s like this. A counselee mentions something or other. Let’s say an argument down at work that led to his firing. The counselor then …
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An agnostic? Well, I can see how this is at least a tenable position for an unbeliever. After all, Paul wrote about the impossibility of such persons to understand or welcome the things of the Spirit of God (1 Corinthians). If your eyes are closed and you admit it, as the agnostic in a sense …
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We talked about the phrase “Tell me about it,” which is one a faithful counselor will be regularly asking because he is interested in facts—not in guesswork. But there’s another phrase, heard too often, that he should learn to avoid. “What’s that?” The phrase is, “How do feel about that?” “What’s wrong about that phrase? …
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The words of Revelation 3:20 are interesting—and sad! Here’s how that sentence in Jesus’ letter to the church at Laodicea reads: See, I’m standing at the door and knocking. If anyone listens to My voice and opens the door I shall come in to him, and I shall eat with him, and He with Me. …
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Listen to this important injunction: Listen to counsel and submit to discipline that, at length, you may be wise” (CCNT/P) —Proverbs 20:20 How many young people have gone wrong because they failed to heed one or the other—or both, as is often the case—of these admonitions! Are you one who has messed up your life …
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