Author: Curtis Solomon

BCC Classic: Growing Compassionate Counsel Through Imagination

Compassion is one of my favorite words. The etymology of the word points to the basic meaning of “suffering together.” In Ephesians 4:32, the word that is sometimes translated as “compassionate” can also be translated as “tender-hearted.” We are called to have soft, tender hearts towards those we counsel. We are to enter into the suffering of the people we are seeking to minister to. We are to weep with those who are weeping (Rom. 12:15). But how do we do this with someone whose situation or struggle is completely foreign to us? My encouragement today: use your imagination. Continue Reading →

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Building Resilience Before Deploying Lethal Force: Preventative Counseling for Military and Law Enforcement Personnel

Preventative counseling is something that should be taking places in churches and between Christians all the time. This article demonstrates how Abigail’s intervention in David’s plan to murder Nabal offers a paradigm for preparing military and law enforcement personnel to face the temptation of vengeance killing. Continue Reading →

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Suffering Calculus

June is PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) awareness month. In light of this season, I wanted to share a segment of the training I offer to equip biblical counselors with tools to help people overcome Post Traumatic Stress and other trials they face in the aftermath of trauma. I chose a section that is applicable to trauma but also to everyone who suffers.  Suffering tends to distort our perception of the world and God. It also narrows our focus onto ourselves. Remember the last time you stubbed your toe? Your pinky toe is not that big, and it didn’t actually break, but it hurt like crazy and demanded all your attention. Every movement cries out to you with pain, and all your thoughts are drawn to that one little toe. This example, of course, is a relatively insignificant form of suffering. But the principle applies to suffering of all kinds. Suffering draws our attention inward toward our pain. When we do look up from our pain and notice others who are also suffering, we can enter into the mental exercise I call “suffering calculus.” Continue Reading →

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Quarrelsome Bondservants

We have just reached the anniversary of the initial impact of COVID-19. The past year has been laden with reasons for sorrow, but what has grieved my heart most is the horrifying testimony of many Christian leaders who have been quarreling publicly. What has bothered me so deeply is the lack of humility and Christ-like love in the ways many have addressed one another before a watching world. Continue Reading →

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Consider It All

2020 has just entered the frame of our rearview mirrors. Most places I turn and people I listen to are charging forward, hoping for a better year than the one we just left behind. While I share that desire, I want to encourage all of us to slow down and reflect on this past year and what God has been doing in, through, and for us. In many ways, 2020 is a year we wish we could forget, but if we try to wipe it from our minds or simply ignore it, we will miss out on God’s work through this challenging year. Continue Reading →

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