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Right Passage, Wrong Verb

by Ann Maree Goudzwaard I believe we have missed the mark in ministering to women held captive by their husband’s cruel words. I want you to know that the reason I feel I have permission to say this is that I am one of the chief offenders. I’ve been a biblical counselor for over ten… Read More

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The Shape of Oppression: Part 2

by Ann Maree Goudzwaard A few years ago my favorite[1] professor at RTS Charlotte wrote a book called What’s your Worldview? In it, he used an interactive method similar to the Choose Your Own Adventure (CYOA) children’s gamebook series. It invited the reader to “make key decisions or choices at a number of points in… Read More

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Covert Patriarchy: Part 4

by Nate Brooks This is the last in a four-part series on ways complementarian men can degrade into patriarchy in the way they consider their wives’ interpretation of and reaction to situations and their desires. Today’s post concludes this series with a word on theological aptitude. The three most manipulative or abusive husbands I have… Read More

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Covert Patriarchy: Part 3

by Nate Brooks Part 2 of this series looked at the first two ways in which complementarian men slide into functional patriarchy. Today’s discussion adds the navigation of a husband’s and wife’s desires. 3) Desires Desires are good, God-given impulses, and human life would grind to a halt without them. Unsurprisingly, husbands and wives often… Read More

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Covert Patriarchy: Part 2

by Nate Brooks Part 1 established that a husband’s status as leader within the family is not derived from his superiority in wisdom or morality. Complementarian men are quick to acknowledge this truth, but a gap often exists between ideas and life. This post looks at the first two of four ways I frequently see men… Read More

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