Author: David and Krista Dunham

Beyond Roles: The Power of Counseling Couples with the One Another Commands

When counseling married couples, biblical counselors tend to focus heavily on Scripture passages that strictly pertain to marital roles. These roles are biblical and significant, but when they become the primary focus, they risk distorting power, overlooking deeper heart issues, and even fueling unhealthy relational dynamics. Scripture shows us God’s fuller vision for marriage through the “one another” commands. These commands turn gender roles into daily choices of humility, sacrifice, and grace. These vital instructions safeguard against misuse of power and reframe marriage as a place of flourishing that reflects Christ’s love. There are four compelling reasons why anchoring our counsel in the “one another” commands is more effective than counsel that focuses on roles alone. Continue Reading →

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Eating Disorder Prevention: Preparation and Submission

Preparation and submission are two key elements of Christian parenting. We plan and strategize how to live faithfully to the Lord, and yet we know we are ultimately dependent upon Him for outcomes. We want to be able to control what happens; we want to keep our kids from sin, temptation, and suffering. There are things we can do to help our kids not develop an eating disorder, for example, but ultimately, we can’t devise fool-proof strategies that guarantee outcomes. So, when it comes to eating disorders, we make prevention plans and we pray for God’s help. Continue Reading →

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A Purpose in Chronic Pain

After our second child was born in 2010, I (Krista) felt a noticeable shift in my health. I expected to be exhausted after adding an infant to our family, but most days, I struggled to even get off the couch. I thought my problems were over after I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and prescribed the proper medication. But within the span of a year, I ended up with eight sinus infections that progressively stopped responding to antibiotics and ultimately required surgery. Then, my joints became stiff, achy, and inflamed. The most disruptive concern was the perpetual and widespread pain. Sometimes, if I closed my eyes, I imagined giant hands gripping my midsection. It hurt to breathe, eat, or move. And I felt tingly, electrical surges shooting through my body if anything came into contact with the backs of my arms or the tops of my thighs. That meant it was painful for my kids to hug me or sit on my lap. Often, I sat thinking of all the moments I was missing because my body would not cooperate. Continue Reading →

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Hope in the Midst of an Eating Disorder

Disordered and destructive eating habits are often accompanied by feelings of hopelessness. Hopelessness abounds to those who feel trapped in cycles that they’ve tried relentlessly to overcome. Hopelessness abounds to those who feel helpless to intervene for their loved ones. We know these feelings all too well. Krista suffered from an eating disorder for over ten years, and David struggled to find ways to help her throughout that time. We know the despair that can sometimes come with eating disorders, but we also know that hope is still possible. Continue Reading →

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