From cell phones to incessant demands from work, many guys feel justified in developing the ancient art of zoning out. As men redeemed by the precious blood of Christ, the grace we have received should impact every area of our lives— including our ears. It is likely the understatement of the century to say that our wives often have helpful, wise, and biblically insightful things to say. In other words, don’t be a fool: “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice” (Prov. 12:15).
One of the ways that we can honor, love, and encourage our wives is to zone in and hear them. This takes effort on our part. Good listening skills must be developed. Not only does the world clamor for our attention, but our own indwelling sin wants to be heard and affirmed rather than expend energy in listening to someone else and bearing his or her load. Although most of our grandmothers were not medical doctors, they were right when they told us that “God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason.”
Listen Actively
Active listening means that we are to exercise intentionality
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