When you are married, there are numerous things that need to be discussed on a regular basis. How was work? How are the kids? What are our plans for the week? What do you want to eat? How was sex tonight?
Does that last question feel shocking to you? The fact is that in order to glorify God and properly love your spouse through sex, you must speak about it with him or her. It can’t remain unaddressed.
How can you have meaningful conversations about sex with your spouse? You should be sure to address wants, worries, ways, and whys.
Wants and Worries
God has designed sex to be an intimate time of togetherness for you and your spouse. There is no other time when you are so connected and intertwined. It is a beautiful thing that should result in transparency, unity, and unhindered affection.
For this reason, sexual desires should not remain silent. If a spouse wants to enjoy something during sex, it should at least be discussed. A spouse should be free to voice what they like and dislike and to bring up any number of desires or preferences regarding sex.
Start the conversation by asking questions. What
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