Content Summary

For the husband who feels enslaved to his struggle with pornography, Curtis Solomon offers hope in his book Redeem Your Marriage. The author begins by first helping the reader have an accurate understanding of the many ways pornography impacts the husband, his wife, marriage, and their relationship with God. Solomon writes “I want you to despair over your sin, but I don’t want to leave you there. I want you to see your sin for what it is, but then I want you to turn your gaze upward toward Christ, allow him to pull you out of the muck, and walk with him through the rest of eternity.”

Solomon helps the reader see that part of the redemption process is coming to grips with the many ways pornography has wreaked havoc in one’s life and marriage and bringing that to God in the form of a lament. He explains that lamenting is the action of bringing our griefs and sorrows to God and plays a significant role in both healing and growth. The reader is encouraged to address three kinds of grief resulting from pornography. First, the losses and pain the wife has experienced. Second, learning to compassionately


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