Do we understand the impact of our words on our children? We utter words every day in all sorts of situations, often without intentionality. Sometimes, when we are using words to keep order and get things done, we lose sight of the power they possess.
My years as a parent have helped me understand that my words do more than guide my children through their day. They shape how they think about themselves, other people, and how the world works. Most importantly, my words are one way my children learn about the gospel.
I remember one afternoon when I was exhausted, and one of my children was not answering me. I quickly grew frustrated and began to demand that they answer my question. But something tugged at my heart, so I stopped, scooped them into my lap, and asked, “Why are you refusing to answer me?” Still, no answer. I recognized this was an important moment, and I prayed for God to give me a gentle spirit. I wanted my child to engage with me not because I forced them to but because they knew they were loved. After all, this is how the Lord engages us.
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