Health Anxiety and Avoidance: Why Running from Fear Makes It Worse
Avoidance feels safe. When something makes us anxious, the simplest solution seems to be: stay away. Don’t go to the appointment. Don’t open the bill. Don’t step into a situation that makes your stomach tighten and your heart race. In the moment, avoidance feels like relief. Your pulse slows, your shoulders relax, and for a short while, you think, I’m okay. But here’s the catch: avoidance doesn’t solve anxiety. It strengthens it. Like feeding a stray cat, avoidance keeps coming back for more. The more we avoid, the more powerful the fear becomes. Continue Reading →
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