by Chelsey Gordon
“I love my husband and desire a godly marriage, but over the years I’ve been worn down under the weight of my husband’s constant criticism, anger, harsh words, and control. I live like a child in my own home, with almost no voice and little decision-making power. I am currently being counseled by a certified biblical counselor, and while I appreciate how much they appear to love the Lord and his word, they seem unsure of how to help me and unwilling to address the abuse head-on. They agree that my husband’s treatment of me is problematic, but when I ask for help understanding and confronting his abuse, they continue to focus our sessions primarily on my moments of sinful response. I’m willing to work on myself as I know I sometimes respond with bitterness, desires for revenge, hateful words, etc. but I also want help to be safe. I can’t live like this much longer. I am afraid I might not make it if I don’t get some help for me and my children who are also affected by my husband’s domineering ways. Without appearing unrepentant or unwilling to address my own issues, how can
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