Rejection—it’s so personal. It sticks to our souls. It does not respond to reason, and is not easily dislodged from our hearts. We can try to talk ourselves out of the indictment that comes with it, but the words we use are mostly ineffective, reinforcing our shame.
I have experienced all sorts of rejection. I still feel the sting of certain family members not ever returning my phone calls and good friendships that are no more. I have heard things like, “you are not a good fit for our small group” or “since you homeschool, we didn’t think you’d fit in with us.” These words pierce. There is a finality about them. They do not leave room for further conversations.
Perhaps you, too, have heard words like these,
“I don’t love you anymore.”
“We have all the helpers we need.”
“I cannot stand you.”
“I’ve decided to room with Lynn at the retreat instead of you.”
“I know you have led our Bible Study group for many years, but we are looking for a fresh face. You understand, don’t you?”
“We play hard, I didn’t think you could keep up with us.”
“We want younger people on our outreach committee.”
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