While they can be the source of some of earth’s greatest joys, family relationships can also be very difficult. Regardless of what some songs say, Christmastime is no exception to this reality. In fact, familial discord has a way of surfacing during this time of the year as we are around relatives we do not see regularly and as we are pressed by busyness and seasonal expectations. Instead of viewing these unpleasant interactions as distractions or inconveniences, however, may they cultivate within you a deeper joy and drive you deeper into Christ.

Magnifying the joy of the Incarnation

When you are faced with a bitter sister, a confused nephew, or a divisive grandparent, stop and remember that this situation is a concrete example of why Jesus came. This Christmas, use that potentially volatile conversation or that particularly dreaded gathering as an avenue for glorifying Jesus.

May it drive you to acknowledge your dependence on Jesus.

Family tensions sometimes feel like they are “just the way things are.” When you are overwhelmed with the seeming impossibility of reconciliation or even cordiality this season, turn to Jesus in humble dependence. Without Him, you can do nothing (John 15:4-5). With Him, you


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